Ms. Teairra Mari

Teairra Mari is back yall. You may remember her from that one hit "Make Her Feel Good". When Only at age 17 she caught the eye of Jay-Z and was signed to Def Jam Records...This April, Teairra Mari will make a return to the limelight with her new album At That Point. Since her departure from Jay-Z’s Rocafella Records a couple years back, She releaseing her first album. She has since, grown from being a teenager trying to find herself - to being a woman who knows exactly what she wants. Teairra is living in Los Angeles now, but does find herself coming to Miami every so often for business and…for pleasure. And I don’t mean “pleasure” as in Pleasure P - she assures us that they’re really good friends. Her first single, “Hunt For You”, actually features him. But the song that caught my ears was "Built for this" this song has encourage me and most young ladies to follow their dreams and work hard for what you want in life. Teairra Mari
is truly a inspiration at heart. Support my girl and buy her Album April 12th... Check out her music video rehersal below with one of my favorite songs out!!!

I Blame Him

Men always want to know how a fine, intelligent, sophisticated, and "rare" young lady like me stay single... & Usually you hear from us ladies that our "ex" messed it up for our next relationship... I don't blame my "ex", {even though he did put me through hell}... I blame my father. Growing up, he had me believe that it was okay for a man to come in and out of my life. To have multiple women, and to generate lots of kids by them, & to say they are coming for me and to never show up. Through the years, I learned not to trust any man. To believe their actions because it speaks louder than their words. I've learned to put me & God first before any man. Also to not look for a man, but to let them find me. As long as they don't have a history like my fathers, then I'll give them a shot. But still, I won't let them get close to my heart. They can try, but it still won't amount to what I believe I deserve... for example: I'll treat my man like a King, just as long as he treat his woman like a Queen.<---A rare occasion for a man..... if I don't see it in their actions; then they're just all talk & they weren't the one for me to begin with... I sometimes see certain things in a man that remind me of my father & I begin to have doubts... Don't get me wrong I love my father and i forgave him a while back, but still I blame my father.... Especially for me not letting a GOOD MAN "dive into my heart, & swim into my soul." { This is why I choose to stay single}

Cleanliness Is Next to Godliness

Filthy Clean is an emotional collective, based on primal human emotions. In searching for a way to balance our feelings, we attempt to conceal our desires to bury our addictions. A true balance, however, is only achieved when good n bad, positive and negative, find an equilibrium. We are all afflicted spirits. Sometimes tarnished, yet brilliant, in the new day's light. With confession, comes absolution. We wash away the days' sins from our bodies, beginning anew, naked and ∵★Ｆ®ΣŠＨ★∴ .Ready!
-Ms. Pierra

THE TRUTH:IF A MAN WANTS YOU

The Truth
Current mood: touched
Category: Goals, Plans, Hopes

THE TRUTH
Current mood: touched

IF A MAN WANTS YOU If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two way street. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them. Pass this on to at least 10 woman and 5 men.

Poem: What is our deepest fear?

"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who I AM to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It is not just in some of us; it is in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."

I Promise

I am me. I promise myself to be me at all times & not change for anyone. I'll take chances and make risks. I will continue to put God first in my life before any man & I will only receive the finest treatment a woman like me deserves from a man... I forgive my enemies from my past & future... I will always keep my head up and never look down... I will never let anyone look down on me nor will I look down on anyone else... I will not look back at my past but instead look forward to my future... I won't desire what is out of my control but I will strive to get what I desire... Im not perfect so I will make mistakes. But I promise myself not to give up & not to fall back, instead I will stay strong & continue to follow my dreams. Signed by Janae Nikole
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